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Internal Family Systems or IFS Model of psychotherapy offers
a clear, non-pathological and empowering understanding of
human problems and a philosophy of practice for practitioners.
IFS views a person as containing an ecology of relatively
discrete minds each of which has valuable qualities and each
of which is designed to, and wants to play, a valuable role
within. These parts are forced out of their valuable roles,
however, by life experiences that can reorganize the system
in unhealthy ways.
A good analogy is an alcoholic
family, in which the children are forced into protective and
stereotypic roles by the extreme dynamics of their family.
While one finds similar sibling roles across alcoholic families
(e.g., the scapegoat, mascot, lost child, etc.), one does
not conclude that those roles represent the essence of those
children. Instead, each child is unique and, once released
from his or her role by intervention, can find interests and
talents separate from the demands of their chaotic family.
The same process seems to
hold true for internal families -- parts are forced into extreme
roles by external circumstances and, once it seems safe, they
gladly transform into valuable members. What are the circumstances
that force these parts into extreme and sometimes destructive
roles?
Trauma is one factor and
the effects of childhood sexual abuse on internal families
has been discussed at length (Goulding and Schwartz, 1995).
But more often, it is a person's family values and interaction
patterns that create internal polarizations which escalate
over time and are played out in other relationships. This,
also, is not a novel observation; indeed it is a central tenet
of object relations and self psychology. What is novel to
IFS is the attempt to understand all levels of human organization
-- intrapsychic, family and culture -- with the same systemic
principles, and to intervene at each level with the same ecological
techniques. (www.selfleadership.org)
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